'Playing through' adversity: 'I'm lucky I'm alive and only lost two legs'
Adaptive golfers share incredible stories, bonds
FRANKENMUTH, Mich. – NOTE: This is the first of two articles on adaptive golf.
John Bell said he remembers eight minutes before the accident that altered his life, but that is it.
“I saw the pictures and I probably should never see them again,” Bell said.
But Bell, who grew up and worked as a construction worker in Toledo, Ohio, was determined not to let the tragedy prevent him from enjoying something he was introduced to by his grandfather when he was a kid, which was golfing.
After having his left leg amputated below the knee and being fitted with a prosthetic leg, Bell found out about adaptive golf tournaments and the United States Adaptive Golf Association.
There was an initial struggle to relearn the game and swing a club with a prosthetic leg, but eventually, Bell got good enough that he was finishing near the top of the leaderboard at various tournaments.
Bell isn’t the only one who found out that golf can be a fun refuge even after tragedy.
Kellie Valentine, a 47-year-old resident of Erie, Pennsylvania, had her right arm amputated below the arm following a car accident in 1993.
A softball player who had never taken up the game of golf, Valentine heard about the adaptive golf circuit and decided to give it a shot, although the idea was met with resistance from her dad.
“He said, ‘I don’t know. It’s a man’s game. You can’t be slow,’” Valentine said. “I said, ‘If that’s the case, I’ll beat you in two years.’ Which I did. He hasn’t beaten me since.”
As satisfying as success on the golf course was, being at adaptive tournaments has served a greater purpose for Bell, Valentine and others.
A unique bond
Bell, who initially moved to Florida temporarily to care for his ailing grandmother, ended up staying permanently after meeting his future wife. Now a resident of Weeki Wachee, Florida, Bell and his wife were married earlier this summer.
After he finished his final round at the International Para-Golf Championships in Frankenmuth, Michigan on Aug. 23, Bell had no hesitation describing his accident, as horrific as the details were.
“I should have been dead,” Bell said of the incident.
On Oct. 7, 2011, Bell was riding his motorcycle when he was rear-ended at a high speed by a truck.
The damage was so severe that Bell had his hand cut in half, his skull crushed, his back broken, his ribs fractured and his left leg amputated below the knee.
Bell said he remembers his ordeal in the hospital after the accident, saying that he kept asking people why it felt like his leg was asleep.
“I couldn’t figure out why they would cut a hole in a hospital bed and leave my leg hanging over,” Bell said. “I’m in the hospital bed constantly trying to move my leg over. But in ICU, there was always someone standing by my bed holding my leg. I mean, how do you tell a guy, 'Hey, we just whacked your leg off.’”
Of course, Bell wasn't the only one at the tournament with a story to tell.
Marty Ebel, a 60-year-old Houston resident who grew up in suburban Detroit, said he’s played adaptive golf for 15 years. He's been an amputee since 1983 when an accident forced him to have both his legs removed.
“I was running a front-end loader and I was doing some landscaping at my grandmother’s house,” Ebel said. “I was dumping some water in a lake. There was a drop-off at a retaining wall. Something went wrong with the machine. The bucket dropped. The seat belt was jammed under the seat, so I didn’t have it on. The thing flipped over, threw me out and landed on me in the water. I’m lucky I’m alive and only lost two legs.”
Valentine, one of four women competing in the tournament, still vividly remembers her life-changing accident.
“The driver didn’t negotiate a curve and the car hydroplaned off of the road,” she said. “I went to cover my face with my arm and the A-beam cut through my arm and part of my face.”
Whether it’s people who have been in accidents, those born without limbs or veterans who became amputees while serving, the stories are plentiful whenever adaptive golfers get together for tournaments.
Needless to say, it creates special bonds between the athletes and friendships for life.
“A lot of times, you have no idea what their stories are,” said Bell, who drives to Orlando regularly to get his leg worked on by prosthetist Stan Patterson. “A lot of people, they don’t know your underlying issues. For some people, their only problem is their leg is cut off. It’s like a car accident. Not every car accident is the same. Every fender bender is different.”
'(The) world is going to spin with or without you'
As much as their stories bond adaptive golfers, so does getting together at tournaments and trying to outdo one another in friendly competition.
From Aug. 20-24, 90 golfers representing 10 countries, including as far away as Japan and Korea, descended on Frankenmuth.
One feature of the tournament was an “Everybody Tee,” where participants teed off from 200 yards away on par 4s and 250 yards away from par 5s, a concept introduced by former Asian Tour golfer Jimmy Dee Dowsett, who has multiple sclerosis.
The tournament not only brought participants from around the world together to bond and have fun playing a game they love, but also was an announcement to the world that accidents and adversity aren’t going to stop them from living their lives.
“Life goes on,” Bell said. “The world is going to spin with or without you. It’s how you live it.”
Graham Media Group 2018